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Increase your calm, focus and happiness so you can be more relaxed, contented and satisfied with your life. For business, entrepreneurs, educators, parents. Hosted by Bruce Langford.
Increase your calm, focus and happiness so you can be more relaxed, contented and satisfied with your life. For business, entrepreneurs, educators, parents. Hosted by Bruce Langford.
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Wednesday May 14, 2025
Success Versus Satisfaction; Dr. Denise Brown
Wednesday May 14, 2025
Wednesday May 14, 2025
Dr. Denise Brown is a transformative leader who helps women in business learn how to prioritize and avoid maternal overwhelm. With over three decades of experience in healthcare as a physician, CEO and Chief Strategy Officer, Denise S. Brown, MD is a thought leader in self-care activities for women. A graduate of The University of Chicago's Pritzker School of Medicine, with training at Stanford and Vanderbilt, she lives with Alex, her childhood sweetheart of 28 years, and their sons Will and Hank.
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Contact Info
- Website: www.TheFairyGodDoctor.com
- Book: The Fairy God Doctor's Guide to a Good Life: A Prescription for the Working Woman by Denise Brown
Most Influential Person
- My Husband
Effect on Emotions
- Mindfulness gives you the sense that this too will pass. Just like thoughts, emotions come, you acknowledge them and then you let them go. It's only heavy if you keep carrying it.
Thoughts on Breathing
- My husband has helped me with the breathing. He is a big James Nestor fan. I like box breathing. In for four, hold for four, out for four, hold.
- I find it incredibly calming in all kinds of scenarios.
Suggested Resources
- Book: The Fairy God Doctor's Guide to a Good Life: A Prescription for the Working Woman by Denise Brown
- Book: Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor
- Book: Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice by Shunryu Suzuki
- App: Headspace
Bullying Story
- The mean girls in my neighborhood were bullying me, and I was in my '50s. You'd think it wouldn't bother me by that time, but it did.
- Mindfulness got me out of it. I felt almost shaky, which was not a thing for me. It was sitting and breathing that helped me.
- The concept of meditation and breathing really helped me calm down.

Wednesday May 07, 2025
Thriving and Prosperous; Rand Selig
Wednesday May 07, 2025
Wednesday May 07, 2025
Rand Selig is an entrepreneur, coach, scoutmaster, conservationist, and board member with a passion for helping others thrive. He holds an MBA from Stanford and degrees in mathematics and psychology, bringing clarity to complex global projects. Based in Mill Valley, California, he enjoys life’s adventures with his wife of 44 years. In Thriving! How to Create a Healthier, Happier, and More Prosperous Life, Rand shares practical wisdom to help readers navigate life’s challenges and discover what it means to truly thrive.
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- Website: www.randselig.com
- Book: Thriving!: How to Create a Healthier, Happier, and More Prosperous Life by Rand Selig
Most Influential Person
- My Father
Effect on Emotions
- Like many people, my emotions often come as a jumble, rarely clear or
simple except for love, which feels pure. Most emotions take time for
me to understand. - Mindfulness, especially through journaling, helps me
sort through my emotions. By reflecting honestly on my role in a situation, I stop blaming others and start seeing solutions. - Sometimes it takes days, but by the end, I feel clearer, more in control, and able to turn difficult emotions into something positive.
Thoughts on Breathing
- When I’m out in nature, I intentionally slow down and take everything
in; the sound of a bird, a bug on a leaf, a bud on a tree. - Sometimes I’ll stop completely, even if I am with someone, and just listen or look in silence.
- During those moments, I breathe deeply through my nose, filling my lungs and feeling my chest expand. That simple act of breathing helps me feel present, grounded, and genuinely happy to be alive.
Suggested Resources
- Book: Positive Intelligence: Why Only 20% of Teams and Individuals
Achieve Their True Potential and How You Can Achieve Yours by Shirzad
Chamine - Book: Thriving!: How to Create a Healthier, Happier, and More Prosperous Life by Rand Selig
- App: n/a
Bullying Story
- When I was 12, I came home 30 minutes late from sledding and
was grounded for the entire winter break—no questions asked. - My father, shaped by a strict military background, enforced rules without
room for dialogue. He acted from fear and a need for control. - Looking back, I realize a mindful conversation could have taught me
punctuality with compassion. - That experience shaped how I led early in my career—efficient but often lacking emotional connection.

Thursday May 01, 2025
The Happy Brain; Loretta Breuning
Thursday May 01, 2025
Thursday May 01, 2025
Loretta Breuning helps people around the world live with a happy brain. She is Professor Emerita of Management at California State University and the author of Habits of a Happy Brain and Why You’re Unhappy: Biology vs Politics. Unsatisfied with conventional theories of motivation, she turned to animal brain chemistry, where she found powerful insights. Her work has since helped thousands worldwide, with her resources translated into twelve languages and embraced by readers seeking natural paths to happiness.
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Contact Info
- Website: https://InnerMammalInstitute.org
- Book: Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain Your Brain to Boost Your Serotonin, Dopamine, Oxytocin, & Endorphin Levels by Loretta Breuning
Most Influential Person
Effect on Emotions
- I have two thoughts on emotions. One is to know that we're not meant to be happy every minute.
- The other is that when I feel bad, I look for a pattern. For me, it was often the anticipation of criticism. I would project that this person is criticizing me, because I was criticized a lot when I was young. Then I realized, they're not criticizing me. They're just doing their own thing.
Thoughts on Breathing
- This breathing topic is a real big challenge for me. I've tried all the breathing techniques. Because I have severe scoliosis, my spine and my rib cage are not aligned. My neck and my pelvis are not aligned.
- I'm fine when I'm active, but when I'm resting, it's a problem. Partly, I think it's because I've taken all these breathing classes.
- The breathing classes have caused me to override my natural breathing which is perfect. Then I try to force something that doesn't come to me.
Suggested Resources
- Book: Chimpanzee Politics: Power and Sex Among Apes by Frans de Waal
- Book: Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain Your Brain to Boost Your Serotonin, Dopamine, Oxytocin, & Endorphin Levels by Loretta Breuning
- Book: Why You're Unhappy: Biology vs Politics by Loretta Breuning
- More Books: https://innermammalinstitute.org/readinglist/
- App: Duolingo (Language App)
Words of Advice
- I always like to get to the subject of social status. This is something that people blame on society, but every animal group has a status hierarchy, and they drive themselves crazy over it.
- This is a learned content imposed on a natural impulse. The reason we do it is because the mammal brain rewards you with serotonin when you think you're rising in the status hierarchy. In a way, it's like an addiction.
- You feel like you have to keep rising in the status hierarchy to keep getting the serotonin. Once you notice that you're doing that, then you can learn to stop doing that by reading my book, Status Games, or, I Mammal.

Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
Podcasts Empower People; David Campbell
Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
David Campbell helps podcasters tell their stories so listeners will be empowered. He currently hosts nine different podcasts. Hailing from Ontario, Canada, he has been chased by a moose, been in 3 tornadoes, and loves to help animals. Dave has been an active musician for 45 years and loves his rescued animals. Dave operates True Media Solutions, supporting podcasters by handling editing, growth, and promotion.
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Contact Info
- Website: https://howtopodcast.ca/
- Website: https://truemediasolutions.ca/
Bullying Story
- Growing up, I was the shy guy and much smaller than almost everybody else. I was the person that people would chase down after school. I found myself trying to rebuild my inner love and respect for myself. In grade seven, I found myself picking on grade one kids.
- It was this whole circle of getting picked on and then me picking on others. To rebuild my worth, I started picking on someone else.
- Then one day at the bike rack, my friend Fred looked me square in the eye and said, If you ever bother my brother again, there will be a problem.
- In that moment, I realized that I was hurting and was now inflicting that pain on others.
- Don't tear others down while you're being torn down. You're just going to create a circle.
Speaking Experience
- I've spoken to groups ranging from very large to as small as three people. Some people are naturally charismatic, while others are not.
- I'm in the 'not charismatic' category. I have to think about how I'm going to show up in front of people.
- I was a speaker for ten years. It helps when you can connect with an audience.
Helping Podcasters
- In podcasting, I get to meet great people. I get to travel the world with a microphone and hear interesting stories.
- I help people tell their stories. That brings me a lot of joy.
Words of Advice
- Think about something you never thought you could do. You smile and you wish that this could happen in your life but for some reason you have not put any action behind it. What is it?
- Write the book, create the content, ask someone to marry you. There's something out there that is on the top of your wish list. Something that if there were no restrictions, you would love for it to happen.
- Let's make that happen.

Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Win With Anger Control; Dr. Mort Orman
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Dr. Mort Orman can help you win with anger control. He is a 40-year anger elimination, stress elimination, and emotions mastery expert as well as a Board-Certified internal medicine physician. Dr. Orman has written 23 books on how to eliminate anger, stress, and other unwanted emotions without using drugs, relaxation exercises or other traditional management techniques. He has also been the official sponsor of National Stress Awareness Month every April in the U.S. since 1992. Dr. Orman is the creator of Angry No More, a ten-session quick anger elimination program and Quick Emotions Mastery, a 4-hour online learning program to master anger, guilt, fear, worry, frustration, and sadness. His newest book “Dr. Orman’s Life-Changing Anger Cure” is now available on Amazon. You can learn more about Dr. Orman at his website http://DocOrman.com..
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Contact Info
- Website: https://DocOrman.com
- Free PDF: The Best Anger Elimination Method You Can Find http://TheAngerSolution.org
- Book: Doctor Orman's Life-Changing Anger Cure
Most Influential Person
Effect on Emotions
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First, you have to be mindful of the emotion when it rises up in you. So you get triggered and you have to understand what triggered you.
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You will see patterns and then you will know what is likely to trigger you in the future.
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Then you have to be mindful about the invisible stuff going on in your head. You have to expand your vision to see the invisible causes inside.
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Then you have all the puzzle pieces and you can work magic.
Thoughts on Breathing
- Breathing is a great stress and anger management technique. It's good in the short run and it does help.
- Breathing alone does not teach you how to identify those filters. It doesn't help you cure the problem.
- But every time the anger comes up, you can use breathing to give you some short-term benefit.
Suggested Resources
Bullying Story
- Regarding bullying, it depends on the emotion that gets triggered.
- Sometimes it can be shame, guilt or anxiety. Each of those emotions will have their own set of filters so you can literally work through those emotions if they are paralyzing in some way.
- You can learn to understand how your brain is making you feel them. Sometimes there's anger associated with being bullied. Sometimes there's anger in the bully so they are looking through the three filters.

Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Find Inner Calm; Gretchen Rubin
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Gretchen Rubin knows how to bring on inner calm. She is a well-known mindfulness and happiness expert who believes that when we know ourselves and what works for us we can change our habits and our lives. She’s the author of several bestselling books, including Outer Order, Inner Calm: Declutter and Organize to Make More Room for Happiness. Gretchen has the ability to communicate complex thoughts and ideas with humor and clarity.
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Contact Info
- Website: https://gretchenrubin.com/
- Blog: https://gretchenrubin.com/blog/
- Podcast: Happier Podcast
- Book: Outer Order, Inner Calm
Most Influential Person
Effect on Emotions
- It just makes it easy to control your emotions
- Mindfulness allows you to have that kind of perspective, which then makes for a much more constructive engagement
Thoughts on Breathing
- I just breathe as it naturally happens.
Suggested Resources
- Book: Taste by Barb Stuckey
- Book: Outer Order, Inner Calm
Bullying Story
- I'm very fortunate, I did not have that experience

Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Fearless Explorer Mindset; Martyn Williams
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Wednesday Apr 02, 2025
Martyn Williams is an explorer, monk, and passionate mindfulness enthusiast. With 45 years of experience leading extreme expeditions, he has conquered Mt. Everest, navigated the North and South Poles, braved whitewater rapids, and guided meditation retreats across the globe.
A visionary leader, Martyn has spearheaded global youth initiatives that have engaged 65 million young people and inspired them to take action in environmental and humanitarian causes. His groundbreaking journey, Pole to Pole, brought together a diverse team of young adventurers from five continents, covering 35,000 km (25,000 miles) in nine months to spark worldwide awareness and change.
His impact extends beyond exploration—Martyn’s prime-time documentary aired internationally, and as a sought-after speaker, he has captivated audiences of over 100,000 people across all seven continents.
Most recently, he spent seven years as a monk, deeply immersed in studying and teaching yoga and the enlightenment sciences to thousands in India and beyond. Renowned for his bliss, humor, boundless energy, and love of life, Martyn continues to inspire others to push their limits—both externally and within.
Contact Info
- Website: (Wikipedia) Martyn S. Williams
- Youtube Documentary: Fearless (Tavi Films)
Most Influential Person
Effect on Emotions
- Mindfulness has given me the ability to see that I can change my perception. I can perceive it one way, yet there is another way to perceive the same situation.
Thoughts on Breathing
- Breathing is super important. I find that deep breaths into the belly and belly relaxation exercises make a big difference.
- I've also done pranayama, but on the very fundamental level, deep breaths into the body and strong exhales are super powerful in the moment.
Bullying Story
- Somebody came to me for help as a parent. They said that they fell into anger very easily. He said he had a teenage daughter and it was a horrible situation.
- I gave the person some mindfulness exercises and did some work with him. He called me up a couple of weeks later and told me that their daughter had invited a friend over to stay at their house. At 2:00 a.m., the police and the parents arrived because they were missing their daughter.
- When they knocked on the door, the man said his normal reaction would have been to get mad. Instead, he decided not to say anything, but just let his wife handle the situation.
- He watched his wife talking with the police, sorting the problem out. His wife was looking over at him in surprise. He was grateful. His ability to implement was the key aspect of that.
Suggested Resources
- Book: The Autobiography of a Yogi by Pranayama
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Book: Guaranteed Solutions by Nithyananda
- App: Headspace
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Wednesday Mar 26, 2025
Improve Life With Quantum Physics; Mel Schwartz
Wednesday Mar 26, 2025
Wednesday Mar 26, 2025
Mel Schwartz is a psychotherapist, marriage counselor, and corporate leadership consultant. He is the author of The Art of Intimacy, The Pleasure of Passion, and his newest book, The Possibility Principle: How Quantum Physics Can Improve the Way You Think, Live, and Love. Mel practices in Westport, Connecticut, and Manhattan and works with individuals across the world. Mel is a member of the Society for Consciousness Studies and has been a keynote speaker at Yale University. You can hear Mel on his TEDx talk entitled Overcoming Anxiety.
Contact Info
- Website: www.MelSchwartz.com
- Podcast: The Possibility Podcast With Mel Schwartz - http://melschwartz.com/possibility-podcast
- Blog: A Shift of Mind Blog - http://melschwartz.com/blog/
- TedX Videos: http://melschwartz.com/talks/
- Book: The Possibility Principle: How Quantum Physics Can Improve the Way You Think, Live, and Love by Mel Schwartz
Most Influential Person
- David Bohm, quantum physicist.
Effect on Emotions
- Mind or a thought in motion, (thought and feeling) are inextricably linked. My bias is that thought occurs first, although we may not see it, or be aware of it.
- So I have learned that when I'm in a particular mood, whether elevated or deflated, if I check in as to what the last thought I had, I can find the thought that set up the feeling.
- Now the thing is, once you have the feeling, that feeling then will summon up more similar thoughts, which is why we tend to cycle up or down.
- But there are different words and labels that we put to describe human experience. So we think of thought being from the neck up.
Thoughts on Breathing
- Breathing is not sufficiently part of my mindful practices. It's something I need to work on. I tend to reside in my spirit and in my mind.
- My work is to develop more awareness in my body and to be more conscious and mindful of my breathing. So to the point of embracing vulnerability and sharing your truth. That's work I still need to do
Suggested Resources
- Book: Read Alfred North Whitehead, the philosopher, 19th century. Also read author, David Bohm.
- Book: The Possibility Principle: How Quantum Physics Can Improve the Way You Think, Live, and Love by Mel Schwartz
- App: Spotify
Bullying Story
- Bullying, especially emotional and verbal, often stems from deeper issues of self-worth.
- In therapy, cases arise where individuals, including men in marriages, tolerate bullying due to low self-esteem. The key question is: Why do I endure this? It ties back to personal narratives formed in childhood—fear of judgment, shame, or disappointing others.
- True self-esteem isn’t about external validation but embracing vulnerability and authenticity.
- Many mistake "acting strong" for strength, but real confidence comes from self-acceptance. Seeking approval excessively weakens one's core identity, making them more susceptible to manipulation and bullying.
Related Episodes
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Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Be Up In Down Times; Mitzi Perdue
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Mitzi Perdue, along with Mark Victor Hansen, is the co-author of How to Be Up in Down Times. She is a health and science writer with an honors BA from Harvard and an MPA from George Washington University. Mitzi combines the experiences of three long-time family businesses. Mitzi founded CERES Farms and also WIN THIS FIGHT, STOP HUMAN TRAFFICKING.
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Contact Info
- Website: www.MitziPerdue.com
- Book: How to Be Up in Down Times, by Mitzi Perdue Mark Victor Hansen and Preston Weekes
Most Influential Person
- Mother Theresa
Effect on Emotions
- I've loved the idea of controlling emotions. Some you can't. If you have a child who's ill, I don't know what to do about that. But of ordinary garden variety things, I think it's a question of whether I will let that get to me. Then, the answer is no.
Thoughts on Breathing
- Breathing I consider so important that I've been taking lessons with a voice coach about deep breathing.
- If you can take a deep breath when things are tough, it takes away tension.
- My breath is purple in my imagination.
Suggested Resources
Bullying Story
- I have had many jobs during my lifetime that were dominated by men. You can imagine that a lot of bullying came my way, so how did I handle it? Here's where it gets a little bit off-beat.
- If you criticized me in some way, and it's going to make me better, I embrace it, I love it, and I'll act on it.
- If you're bullying me or if you're being critical because you think you can get away with it, you don't exist for me. I'm not going to let you get under my skin.
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Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Dialectical Behavior Therapy; Dr. Laurie Bruce
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Wednesday Mar 12, 2025
Dr. Laurie Bruce uses Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help people learn to manage their emotions and let go of anxiety and trauma issues. Dr. Bruce has provided psychotherapy, consultation and supervision to thousands of clients and students. She is certified in DBT and Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapy. Dr. Bruce is the host of the podcast, From Both Sides of the Couch, where she shares the current research on mental health and psychotherapy, from her perspective as both a psychologist and a client in her own psychotherapy. She is passionate about mindfulness, emotion regulation, resilience, radical acceptance and vulnerability.
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Contact Info
- Website: www.DrLaurieBruce.com
- Podcast: From Both Sides of the Couch
Most Influential Person
- My two kids
Effect on Emotions
- I can't change what I'm not aware of, so the very first step is to be more aware of how I feel emotions in my body. Typically one of the corresponding thoughts that I have with certain emotions, I feel anger in my chest or my stomach and usually a corresponding thought is that's not fair. Being able to identify how it feels in my with what the words are going through my head, with what the name of that emotion is, that helps me to regulate it and it helps me to change it if that's an emotion I want to change.
Book: The mindful way through depression.App: calm and insight timer.
Thoughts on Breathing
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BreathingWe teach breathing both in the mindfulness component of just observing our breath is a great mindfulness exercise. We also teach breathing as a tool To help decrease distress. When were very upset, which in DBT we call emotion mind, breathing can be a tool to bring down the intensity of any emotion.
Bullying Story
- I was bullied during my early childhood. I attribute my bullying experiences as part of the reason that I became a clinical psychologist.
- I struggled with depression and anxiety and low self-worth. Becoming a clinical psychologist was about me trying to alleviate that pain that stemmed from my childhood bullying.
- When I started learning about DBT, back in the mid '90s, I recognized that I was learning important skills for the very first time.
- I believe we should teach DBT in schools so that kids feel more empowered. That would help them regulate their emotions and their distress and learn how to be present.
Suggested Resources
- Book: The Mindful Way Through Depression by Mark Williams and John Teasdale
- App: Calm and Insight Timer
